jamming 101
To start a song if you sing but don’t play an instrument, audibly and distinctively count “1 – 2 – 3 – 4” then “1–2–3–4” twice as fast decisively snapping your fingers or tapping your feet to the beat. Practice this at home to learn to set the right tempo for a song.
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I'm a fiddler with a lot of jamming experience. I can fit my playing into many different styles, from old timey and bluegrass to folk rock and jazz.
The most important things for me at a jam are:
1) To have fun
2) To be able to hear myself play
3) To take turns with other players so everyone gets heard.
4) To listen and learn
When I try out a new jam, here's what I do and what will probably keep me from coming back a second time.
Practice keeping a steady beat by tapping your foot, alternating an inside tap for the down beat or first pulse and a less dominate outside tap for the second pulse. Strengthen that skill in a jam by playing along quietly and following the stronger jammers.
What started you out jamming and playing music as a social activity?
I've recently began playing harmonica. I had a couple sessions with an instructor which was enlightening but too expensive to continue. He said I was good enough to sit in on some jam sessions around town and that it would help me improve more quickly than playing on my own. Problem is, I don't understand music very well and can hear that I am terribly "off" at times. I'm afraid of anoying everyone. Is it best to jump in to a jam session and figure it out as you go or should I learn what I can at home and only join when I can contribute comfortably to a group.
Every day I see lots of new people joining Folkjam which is great. I'm sure there are many people that aren't really looking for formal jams, specially newer players, but wouldn't you like to get together with just a couple people in an informal setting? Lot's of good learning and song sharing. When you sign up, check that box that puts you on the musician's map. If you just check the "send a private message", I have no idea if you're in Detroit or Hong Kong. Putting yourself on that map does not give away any personal info such as your name or address.
Ive been playing for some time but im only 15 years old. Since ive been here ive noticed a jam session in my area and have been hesitent to attend. I dont plan on playing much really just observe, but do you think i should go? i dont want to come and get on all the older guys nerves.
Whether you are brand new to bluegrass/old time/country or you've been at it a while, but lack the confidence to "join the jam," you could benefit from Mike Finders' bluegrass jam class! Mike Finders, founding member of Fort Collins-based, Finders and Youngberg, has been a guitar player and songwriter since he was a boy. He has also been a licensed teacher for over 18 years. Come work up your chops in a supportive environment.
Hello... my name is Jenny and I recently "discovered" bluegrass music via Steve Earle and The Del McCoury Band. I don't play any instruments, but am DYING to hear some bluegrass music, and can't seem to find any bars or venues that feature live bluegrass music around my area. Do they even HAVE bluegrass festivals in Southern California??
So, my question is.... can I come to any of these jams just to listen?
I did buy a harmonica though, and am trying to learn how to play it - LOL!!!
Thanks,
Jenny, EarlGirl, The OC, California

