Novice fears, nerves, and welcomes?
I have a background in a lot of different styles and a couple instruments, but I am new to organized jamming (other than with friends and a lot of familiarity with those in the living room). Most performing I have been involved with was well rehearsed, choreographed etc. My wife has just started to become involved with music, and I am new to bluegrass/folk and the routines that seem to be common.
We have been reading up on protocol and are planning to start hitting a few jams, open mics etc. to familiarize ourselves with the culture. One of my bigger concerns is how we, beginners, are welcomed, viewed and tolerated. My wife is easily embarrassed, but also easily encouraged. I, on the other hand have little fear of failure (try, try, again thing).
Is it common to find others helping those of us less experienced voluntarily, or is it usual for a fair amount of coersion is needed to find someone to mentor the newbies. I think you catch the drift here, we most likely will participate whole heartedly with encouragement, but, sometimes it is hard to get the introductions and acceptance to acclimate to the unfamiliar.
What can we expect and how do we go about initiating ourselves into the culture?



I guess the only time I felt excluded in a jamming session was at a bluegrass festival where inadvertently stumbled on a large group who were practicing for a show. Rather then tell me what I'd done they closed their circle tighter and kept playing. My reaction? If they want to hear me play they'll just have to buy a ticket from now on.
Jamming is inherently inclusive. Normally in my experience the better players tended to move to the center of the group. I'm guessing most are old and hard of hearing? Maybe not but sliding into a jam session and start playing is acceptable in almost any genre. Walk up with your instrument and somebody will give you a nod in. Trouble comes if your out of tune, don't know the tunes and play anyway, your off beat, you don't listen to others or call out tunes nobody knows. Most jams have a standard fair of tunes most everybody knows. For old timey or Irish you might hear Whiskey Before Breakfast, St. Ann's Reel, Irish Washer Woman and a few others. Bluegrass has their own set of standards along with vocals and ballads. Bluegrass also has the advantage of strong chords. If your familiar with the song's structure you can chord along. If the members are familiar with each other they might skip the standards and go into stuff they've worked up over the years. It's kind of a grab bag if you don't know the group. The best thing I guess is to listen for a while. If you know the majority of the tunes join in. Since I'd drag in a hammered dulcimer and a guitar I could cover most of the tunes. The most important equipment though was the tape recorder shoved underneath my chair. The months of January - March are spent working up tunes I don't know but heard around different sessions.
Jim
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Thanks James, my wife and I are just starting to make the rounds, we attended an open mic session yesterday just to familliarize ourselves with the atmosphere, we've been doing some on-line searches for activities (that's how I found this site). It seemed that most of the few people there were well acquainted with each other (we felt a little like fish out of water), the weather wasn't the best so there was just a small group of people there. We seem to have a few more open mic sessions than organized jams in our area, but I have found a few jams listed. We went to one last week some 45 miles from here, however on arriving we found a sign on the door stating closed, but for a cover we could go to another address at a different time, which we choose not to, are cover charges common? There are several scheduled that we intend to search out to attend to just watch at 1st. Is it acceptable to just show up, or is it advised to register or call ahead? And, also is it alright to record (small pocket recorder), if we are not participating? Sorry if I seem anal about this, eventually we'll get the hang of it, but any help would be appreciated.
I did a few of those open mike things and finally stopped. I'm not out to impress anybody. Besides, the groups that back up the guys who sing cowboy songs are comfortable with that genre. I waltz up with a huge hammered dulcimer and they get this deer in the headlight look. The backup is pretty awkward. The last time I did it I walked out promising myself the next time THOSE guys heard me play they'd have to buy a ticket. If your asked for a cover charge go somewhere else. You shouldn't have to pay to play. In the Irish circles tradition says the performers get a free beer.
I guess Scott has got to get the word out to folks in Florida about his jamming site. I know there's a few of my snow bird friends who hold their meetings in Florida. I could look around for you a bit. You might also check the local folk arts society using the yellow pages or the local library. Most larger cities have them.
I don't think anybody will have problems with your recording the jam session. The only ones who fuss about that are major recording artists. Actually they don't care but their agent will. To loose the buck 85 from an unsold album keeps them up at night.
I'll contact a friend of mine in Florida to see where the hot jams are.
Jim
i have found the best way to join a jam is to walk in and see what is going on then deciede if you can join in type of music speed ect that only you can choose
as for paying some jams do charge to help cover costs involved i play at one "the great northern music hall" charges $4.00 at the door to listen and $2.00 if you go on stage they have several jams in the basement
if you come in the room i am in you will be welcomed with warm hearts
but some rooms are groups praticing to go on stage and want to be left alone
i guess the best advice i can give is check it out and you decide for yourself
keep pickin
randy
looking for ,old rock, country ,bluegrass, gospel
James, Thank you for your insight, and help. I don't have to much fingerstyle and flatpick experience, and zippo bluegrass (mostly old soft rock, some folk). But I can pick up a beat follow a chord progression and strum along. The open mics we've been seeking out are pretty much folk, solos, maybe duets. But they certainly are not the bluegrass in the books my wife had me get for us. We have located a few jams we will be trying to visit and we'll keep going to the festivals, camps and open mics we source out of here, I figure we'll eventually hit it off with a group that we will feel comfortable with and learn some of their favorite tunes to participate with. I don't really mind a cover if I were to know what I was getting into, heck I'd gladly pay up for a group that felt welcoming.
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Thanks for your response, as I mentioned to James here, I have no problem struming and picking up a beat in progression, my wife with the autoharp on the other hand is going to take some coaxing. We've got her working a half hour a week to start, with a bluegrass player who we hooked up with as a teacher at a local music shop, real basic, but it's keeping her focused, not bad for me either. We will keep exposing ourselves to the functions we can find, and I'm sure we'll eventually work our way in. Seems like a familiar circle that the folk and bluegrass crowd runs with, at 1st glance it appears a lot of people know each other. Thanks for the encouragement.
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Hi -- I have been successfully running a jam for the last 3 years. My suggestion to you for creating your own jam might be:
1-Go to jams or festivals in your area. Walk around and see whats going on. Generally you will find a group of folks that play around the same ability as you. That would be a great place for you to start. Just wait until they play a tune you know and just jump on in!
2-Invite all the pickers you know! Have them tell their friends to come too.
Here is an article I had published in the local bluegrass association newsletter several years ago that might be of help. Happing picking!
shelah spiegel
fiddle teacher/performer/jammer
southern california
JAMMING ETIQUETTE
by
Shelah Spiegel
This article is rewritten from an earlier one I wrote about 5 years ago for the SWBA Newsletter. It was a need that I felt should be shared due to actions I had first-hand seeing at the Blythe festival and thought that these views could be used to help with getting along better in jamming situations.
Since the decline in bluegrass festivals in the Southern California area, it seems that bluegrass jammers who are new to this genre of music have not had the opportunity to pick with other, more experienced musicians, or at the least, listen to a group of experienced pickers jam. As a newby to jamming, we have all come into contact with our own inability to feel comfortable joining a jam session for the first few times. Those leering, pinched-lipped pickers who make you feel unwanted or just tell you to play more quietly, can cause a feeling that you aren’t allowed to play with them. In actuality, you are probably doing a jammers faux pas by playing too loud or playing through someone’s break. I would like to add my $.02 to this by showing below my 10 Commandments of Bluegrass Jamming Etiquette. Keep in mind, the reason we play an instrument is to be able to play with other people. So keeping this in mind, go out, how fun, and listen to the other players too!
10 COMMANDMENTS OF BLUEGRASS ETIQUETTE
1. THOU SHALT jam to thy left. Upon completing thy break, the fellow immediately to thy left shall partake of playing next. Shouldest thou choose the tune or song, the fellow immediately to thy left shall thereupon choose the next tune or song.
2. THOU SHALT play backup quietly. Shouldest it not be thy break, thou shalt play quietly. This manner of courtesy allows thy fellows to hear the heavenly melodies of the person in lead and thou mayest pick up some chops in the process.
3. THOU SHALT put thy strings in tune. It is an abomination to the angels shalt thy instrument be of faulty pitch. If thou canst do it by ear, use thy tuner. Intonation of thine instrument is to be held in the highest and will be respected by all.
4. THOU SHALT open thy circle. Allow thy fellow picker to enter the circle if they be of new and fresh meat. Part thy circle and make way for more music. If thy circle be of intimate content, courtliness in manners excusing the fellow from thy practice session is a kindly thing indeed.
5. THOU SHALT play thy break and step away. Do not hoggest the tune by sharing all thy musicality throughout the number loudly. Allowest other pickers opportunities to shine with the wealth of their harmonies.
6. THOU SHALT not turn thy back on thy fellow pickers. It be of rude and contempt toward thy fellow picker.
7. THOU SHALT let someone else be in charge. Since no one is of highest and mighty power and charged with leadership, thy jam be for one and all to call out new tunes.
8. THOU SHALT play thy kitchen, washing, blowing or honking items within a discrete distance away from a serious jam. Bluegrass instrumentation shalt be of stringed instruments only and any other that go before shall be with tolerance and foreboding and within the scope of acceptability of the jam as a whole acceptability.
9. THOU SHALT step away from thy jam if thou canst play the tune. If thou noodlest in the background until the closure of said musicality, rejoin thy jam and make merry with thine instrument.
10. THOU SHALT have fun. Play thy music, make good and beautiful sounds and take pleasure thyself in the sounds that eminate from thine instrument. Speedist not up in thy rhythm nor sing off pitch. Should thy be a fiddle or mandolinist, thou shalt play backup on the 2 and 4. Do not be discouraged by the loathsome 5-stringed demon who plays continuously and at alarming rates, but enjoy the challenge.
Novice jammers of any acoustic instrument will find WONDERFUL advice at Pete Wernick's website. There is a lot of banjo coverage AND info for pickers of all kinds of instruments. Here is the link: http://www.drbanjo.com/instructional/instruct10-ask-cat-jam.html
He also hosts several Bluegrass Jam Camps around the country, many of which precede festivals. Check it all out: http://www.DrBanjo.com
Good advice! I'll watch for the camps etc. may be a good way in :)
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Sometimes the best jams at a jam session are held outside or in another room. Grab a couple people and start picking. If you're going to look for a spot to 'fit in' you'll never find it. You have to take your instrument out first.
Got bluegrass in my blood, now if I can only get to my fingers.
LOL! Great Idea, just take it outta da case. Problem is finding a jam in this neck of the woods that seems to be thriving with any regularity. I have been doing a few solo open mics (which I have been really enjoying), I located through here. But in all honesty I've yet to find an active open jam that was actually happening when and where it was supposed to. Poor timing, bad luck, but just the same I am envious of those areas around the map that one can wander around in and take an instrument out of the case.
I'll keep showin' up but I doubt I'll be scheduling the day around many in the Gulf Coast area.
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I need advice on two things: First, can anyone tell me how I might find some acoustic musicians to jam with on my cajon. I know most people don't know what a cajon is. It's a wooden box the player sits on that has snares inside and, when played by someone that knows what they're doing, can sound like a cross between congas and a drum set. I'm starting to see cajons (cajones?) popping up more and more on YouTube in all kinds of music, including rock, folk, Irish, Bluegrass, Jazz, Latin, and especially Flamenco. As a matter of fact, I just saw one on TV last night on American Idol. I've been playing drums in various types of music since I was 12 and am experienced enough to know how to play whatever beat/groove/rhythm is appropriate to the music being played. So, my first question is where to find jams in my area (northeast Houston) and my second question is how should I approach a jam in progress? After reading the above postings on Bluegrass etiquette, I'm a little intimidated, especially being a percussionist. Try to picture this: you're playing in a smoking jam session and a guy walks up carrying a wooden box (you can see a picture of it in my profile)and sits down next to you. He picks up on the rhythm and starts softly laying down a groove. Would you be annoyed that he just started playing without asking? Do you think he should wait until the tune is over and ask if it's ok to play along? What do you all think? I welcome all opinions and suggestions. Thanks
Sam,
I'm not certain that Bluegrass and percussion blend. They may, but I do not recollect seeing a percussive instrument at a BG jam session outside of the occasional spoon use or tapping the body of a guitar for effect.
Where I do see percussion is in more dance oriented music. Irish, Contra Dance and some Old Time. There is a band here in Kansas City called Dog Tree that uses a Cajon in nearly everything they play. (I believe one of their members is user "dogtree" on folkjam.org - send a PM). You might test the waters on Irish sessions and go down the path of finding dance music. Learning to match the sounds of a Bodhran as used in Irish music would likely make you quite popular in sessions.
Scott
I suppose it's how you define the genre, but I've sat in on any number of informal jams in the back country and I can't think of any where somebody wasn't playing some kind of percussion. Everything from some kid thumping the end of an orange crate to the "one-too-many" guitar player setting his instrument on his lap (strings down) and playing percussion until one of the other guitar players got tired.
So jams no longer resemble what happens when people get together on the back porch?
I admit to having run into a few "you can sit in with your banjo, but if you take that jug in your bag, you gotta go" groups, but I usually save myself the trouble and look for another group.
It's probable that a jam labeled Old-Timey or Irish or acoustic or Scottish would be more welcoming. I wouldn't advise Celtic -- traditional it isn't, but (at least in the States) it's highly circumscribed. I know that none of the instruments I play while visiting friends in Ireland work with such people.
I've played with informal groups all over the world, and I've seldom found a problem with sitting down, listening for a while, and joining in ..... as long as I did it with a little humility and a big smile.
As an aside, I must admit to a slight confusion, Scott. People no longer dance to Bluegrass? I realize I've been out of town for a while, but I didn't think there was any traditional style that nobody danced to. Interesting. I've a lot of catching up to do.
Cheers
Mike
As an aside, I must admit to a slight confusion, Scott. People no longer dance to Bluegrass? I realize I've been out of town for a while, but I didn't think there was any traditional style that nobody danced to. Interesting. I've a lot of catching up to do.
That's a fair point Mike. In my narrow experience to the region around Kansas City and at the events I attend, this is typically the case. It's certainly not a hard rule.
I do agree that many folks beat on something for percussion in Bluegrass - chairs, creates, boxes, knees, spoons, sticks, bones, etc. What I'll call 'incidental' percussion instruments rather than 'dedicated' instruments are very common in all the folk genres I've dabbled in.
It really does come down to demonstrating silent respect for a while before jumping in at any unfamiliar jam, regardless of instrument.
Scott
Maybe I picked the wrong thread in which to pose my questions about where I could find acoustic musicians to jam with and how to approach them. I didn't realize that "Bluegrass" was such a pure art form. I don't want to be thought of as one of those "folks (who) beat on something for percussion in Bluegrass - chairs, creates, boxes, knees, spoons, sticks, bones, etc." Actually, if the person doing the "beating" is an experienced drummer, he/she could create a great beat that would enhance what others are playing. I once sat down on a park bench in Washington Square in New York City next to 2 guys who were playing old swing songs on acoustic guitar and tenor sax. I had a book that I had just bought in a paper bag on my lap and started swirling my hands over the paper bag, as if I were using brushes on a snare drum. It din't sound as good as a real drum, but it provided a swing groove. They both smiled and nodded at me and we had a fun little mini jam. My point is, GOOD percussion can make a jam swing, or rock or whatever verb you want to use to describe the feeling it creates. I realize that in "Bluegrass", the other instruments provide all of the rhythm that's needed, so I'll look for anything else that dosen't have that label. Surely, there are people who play other styles of acoustic music here. To me, the most exciting types of music are those that incorporate different styles. Hopefully, there are other people here who feel like branching out. When I found Folkjam on the web, I was excited. I figured this could be where I could find acoustic musicians in my area with whom I could try my new instrument. Unfortunately, I'm still trying to figure out how to go about it.
So to any Folkjam members in the Northeast Houston, Humble, Kingwood area: If you want to try something a little different on say,a Saturday afternoon, other than sitting around watching tv. Look at my profile and see if what interests me interest you also. If so, please let me know.
Sam,
I'm a little far away in Kansas City, but I will say that I'd love to have had you at the swing jam a few of us had this morning. The percussion would have been more than welcome.
As to my note Cajon and Bluegrass what you'll find will vary by region and group. The term is pretty broadly applied, and for some it is very rigidly defined. "If Bill Monroe didn't do it, it's not Bluegrass" is perhaps the most rigid. For others, myself included, it's pretty open.
Have fun finding others to play with.
Scott
Sam,
I'm not a bluegrass purist by any stretch and I generally don't mind percussive instruments as long as they don't overwhelm and force everyone to play louder. Some jammers have a hard time maintaining a good rhythm and therefore need the percussive sounds of, say, a mandolin or a bass to help them stay in time.
But I can say that many traditionalist bluegrassers would probably frown on a cajon joining in. But then again trad grassers tend to frown if a dobro joins in. It's not always considered a trad bluegrass instrument.
I'd say take along your cajon, join in quietly and see what the response is.
..... and because I keep putting my foot in the goo when dropping in on jams whilst traveling .......
How are "traditional bluegrass instruments" defined? From some of the comments, it clearly has little to do with what one would have encountered on a backporch in the Southeastern United States in the early-to-middle part of the 20th Century.
A few weeks ago, I dropped in on a jam in a place that shall remain nameless. The leader of the jam passed judgment on each tune to ensure that "we don't get old-timey mixed in with bluegrass." Where does that particular line fall?
I'm old enough to remember Flatt and Scruggs having trouble being accepted in folk venues, so I suppose there's nothing new. For that matter, I can keep from laughing when a bouzouki, a daf, Northumbrian elbow pipes, and an English flagolet are presented as "traditional Celtic" instruments.
But I've been wanting to ask, and this seems to be a good, literate place to seek an answer:
When did it all get so dogmatic? Who made these borders, and where are they defined?
Old Time and Bluegrass were both once part of rural (country) folk music in the U.S.
Old Time was captured or "photographed" by the new technologies of recording and radio- many Old Time performances were recorded on 78 rpm records. But Bluegrass evolved in response to the new technology- radio shows like the Grand Old Opry,. The basic instrumentation of fiddle, banjo, guitar and mandolin was adapted in playing techniques to the new reality of no longer being accompaniment to a dance, but rather designed to attract and hold the attention of an audience. People that are dancing might not be listening too critically if the rhythm is good enough, but people setting on their duffs and listening or maybe even watching in the live audience have their attention free to be more critical.
I think Bill Monroe was very aware of what worked best in the new situation, and also assessed the market of country music listeners well.
People wanted to be dazzled with virtuoso playing. So break etiquette was borrowed from blues and/or jazz, and he got the best players on each instrument he could find. At some point bass and dobro were added.
Harmonica is acceptable in both Old Time and Bluegrass, but Old Time will usually be melodic "straight harp" and Bluegrass will be bluesy improv with a "cross harp".
Old Time as it exists to day is in some ways an outgrowth of the folk boom. After the folk boom went bust after the British Invasion and Dylan's Electrification (birth of folk rock?)some people continued to play and perform at small folk festivals. One frequent performer at festivals was Mike Seeger of the New Lost City Ramblers, and various other traditional performers performed as well. The New Lost City Ramblers songbook and records continued to sell and influence musicians. So basically what happened was that 60's folk players either went electric or went trad. Hardly anybody was interested in pop-folk stuff like the Kingston Trio or the Limelighters anymore.
There was also some urban interest in bluegrass started by the likes of the Greenbriar Boys, and that continued. When I went to college in Southern California in the early 70's, there was an acoustic jam on the lawn on Friday afternoons. Bluegrass dominated, but there was some Old Time and fingerpicking. Folklore departments like at UCLA and folk music classes like at my college acted as focal points for traditionally oriented folk musicians, and there were folk festivals like the one in San Diego. And fiddle and banjo contests like the Topanga Canyon Contest. All this allowed musicians to network.
In L.A. there were bluegrass, Old Time, and Irish music scenes going, and apparently some Balkan music too.
When you have college educated urban people involved in a music genre, you are going to have different approaches. Some people tend to take a recreationist approach, like if they are into bluegrass, they will seek to emulate the sound of Bill Monroe's band or the Stanley Brothers... then you have progressives that are more creative, draw on influences from other styles of music... and then you had Newgrass!
In Old Time you have a similar thing- you have people ("purists")at one extreme who are trying to recreate the sound on 78's from the 20's, or Library of Congress field recordings, and you have others who are more creative and allow modern influences. In Old Time one of the new things was that the large jams tended to produce a more modern style called "Festival Style" Old Time that has a bluegrass drive, usually enhanced by a standup bass, and a more syncopated, backbeat oriented fiddle style. Purists tend to dislike this style, as you might guess. Festival style tends to be more open to different acoustic instruments. Sometimes banjo-uke is used to do bluegrass like chopping (but a bit mellower in sound) and I know one group who recorded with a Caribbean bass box (I think that's what they're called)
and would probably be open to a cajon.
Bluegrass is a bit more complicated than Old Time, because the music retained some popularity in rural areas, and there is some influence back and forth between commercial Nashville-style Country and Bluegrass. Rural bluegrass fans seem somewhat middle of the road-
less likely to be obsessed with Monroe or the Stanleys, but also not into really edgy Newgrass stuff either.
Old Time events tend to be dominated by people with urban roots who may or may not have moved to rural areas, but have a fascinations for the older forms of country music. Sometimes they dabble in Bluegrass, but for many it's just too modern and not old-fashioned enough.
Anyway, before getting experimental at either an Old Time or a Bluegrass jam, I'd test the waters first. For instances, you could ask a question "What's festival style Old Time?" if you get a kind of negative answer (like it's somekind of plague) LEAVE THE CAJON in the car- and ask if spoons or bones are okay- and make sure you've practiced on them first! For a bluegrass jam, ask about the Stanley Brothers and Newgrass. If their answer shows they LOVE the Stanley Brother but think Newgrass is some kind of plague, leave the cajon in the car, and SIT on your hands! Or head for the exit, whichever you prefer...
There is also a more recent phenomenon where you get various hybrid bands: New Crow Medicine Show, the Duhks, Crooked Still, Devil Makes 3 and the like. Usually there is a mix of bluegrass and Old Time influences. I'm not sure, but I suspect that a jam that featured a lot of material by these and similar bands might be open to experimentation with percussion, but I think that people who were into this newer style would be more interested in forming bands than hosting a jam. The reality is that jams are often hosted by older people who've "settled down" somewhat, and that often means that their tastes will be more old-fashioned and predictable too.
You could also use some of these band names to test the waters.
You bring up some great points, psalt.
Although I for one enjoy many different types of jams from the "bring anything you got" jam to the "strictly BGMBF" variety, I think it would be interesting to throw out a few counter perspectives/personal observations into what we have been talking about here.
I have been to plenty of jams where I have not felt totally welcome either because I didn't know the same repertoire, didn't play to the same level, or didn't follow the particular style in the same manner as those already there (e.g. Flatt & Scruggs vs. Stephen Foster vs. John Denver). In each of these cases, the people in the circle weren't being snobs per se, they just wanted work in a perticular musical vein that my playing at the time didn't compliment. This has especially been the case when the music being played was really tight and the players wanted to push themselves a little bit. In those cases, broad variety isn't the spice of life but focus on nuance and the details of the craft in a somewhat consistent framework.
The music that Bill Monroe played (agreeably the most commonly held benchmark of bluegrass) also wasn't exactly what you were likely to hear on the back porches of Appalachia at the turn of the last century. His music as well as that of Jimmy Martin, the Country Gentlemen, the Osbornes and others of that generation was not in the pure folk or even string band tradition but rather grew out of a honing and shaping of those influences into a tight (I would even say narrow) and highly focused form which required a great amount of skill and dedication to perform.
When jams are being "pure" about the instruments that they want in the circle and the tunes that get called, oftentimes they are doing that because they want to reproduce that same focused environment where they can put their hard fought practice to work with other people in a context that they all share without any prior coordination. In that sense, it's much the same as when classical players dig into a piece of Beethoven or Mozart. The player is going to follow the score of the music and the direction of the conductor but within that framework, they are going to put forth their best technical effort and attempt to soar in their own interpretation and coordination with the other orchestra members. Reaching for that type of feeling doesn't happen easily unless everyone playing is "on the same page" (and in the orchestra this is literally so).
I have fun pretty much no matter what is being played and I certainly don't want anyone to feel left out, but I also don't really fault a group that wants to dig deep into a particular tradition, e.g. [F&S] bluegrass, Irish, contra dance, old time, etc. I have been at a number of those jams and some of the most satisfying playing can be heard and shared within those groups. There will always be a place for the "come as you are and let's see where this can take us" form of playing music with others but the more focused groups have their own appeal and satisfaction which I believe can be enjoyed as well.
-Shawn
Play Well.
Each jam pretty much has its own personality. In my experience, those which are "closed" tend to be attended by egocentric musicians who want to be heard practicing rather than to welcome others to their own precious little gathering. That's true even if you are up-to-speed with them and are familiar with their genre and repertoire. I'd be inclined to tell them that you didn't feel welcome (in an even-handed and diplomatic way) and then be on my way, never to return.
Jams where all are welcome regardless of musical leanings and experience are much more satisfying to me, because they're as much about socializing as the music. People want to go where everybody knows their name!
I regularly attend a jamboree that I feel that I've outgrown musically because I love the people there. Also, in some perverse way, it can be fun and challenging to sit there for 3 hours trying to play along with somebody who can't count to 4 consistently or is grossly off-key while waiting for my 2 turns at the mic that evening.
There's something American and wonderfully egalitarian about everyone having their turn, whether they are an experienced musician or a total newb who is slaying a dragon by stepping up to the mic for the first time ever.
Bottom line, if you feel welcome and appreciated, it's a good jam, and if you feel like an intruder or a "barbarian at the gate", it's a crappy jam and not deserving of your participation! :-)
Well spoken, Johnny. I couldn't agree more.
-Shawn
One of the best things I've done for my autoharp playing is to have the chord bars rearranged the way that Bryan Bowers has his bars done. Bowers' arrangement lets you change keys easily using the same fingering patterns for the left hand for any key. Good luck.